Five ways to Have a Sexy Halloween with Your Spouse

Make a Fun and Sexy Halloween Tradition

Halloween is one of the greatest nights as a kid (hellooo ... free candy!) but there is no reason why mature married couples can't get in on the fun, with or without kids. Here are some tips on how you can turn Halloween in a fun yearly reminder to spend some sexy quality time with your spouse

Dressing up

Once the kids are in bed, make a couple tradition to dress up and role play on Halloween night. You can make the activity fun by either going with a set theme or storyline, or by setting a price limit and buying each other a costume to wear. There a many different activities and ideas online to suit every taste and effort / fantasy level. Think of sexy things to do or find games to play while in dress-up mode; there are endless fun possibilities especially if you both get into character.

Make a XXX trick'or'treat bag

Fill a small bag full with Halloween candy and label / tape different fun or sexy things to do with or to your partner on the candy wrapper. Take turns drawing from the bag, eat the candy and then do the described activity. You can also find creative uses for certain candies on your partner's body and throw your favorite sex toys into the mix as well.

Watch a scary movie together wearing next to nothing

Cuddle under a comfortable blanket in your underwear / lingerie while watching a scary movie in the dark. It'll bring you back to the good old dating days of having some hanky-panky in the back row of a movie theatre, except this time you don't have to worry about getting busted. Grab the popcorn, fire up Netflix and pick a movie like The Cabin in the Woods or Interview With The Vampire for a mix of scary and sultry scenes that will have your hearts racing and gripping each other tightly. Don't feel like having a heart attack? Go with the romantic zombie comedy Warm Bodies.

Got kids? Halloween sleepovers are fun both kids and parents

Pair up with another couple and alternate Halloween years to have both sets of kids trick'or'treat together in one group and sleep over at one couple's house. It's un for the kids to go in a large group and alternate neighbourhoods. The main advantage for the adults is the "free" couple can go out for a date on a night where restaurants and movie theatres are fairly empty and pretty much kid-free as all children are out trick'or'treating.

Host an adult-themed Halloween party

The cult classic movie Mean Girls was famous for its line: "Halloween is the one night a year when girls can dress like a total slut and no other girls can say anything about it." Well the same is true if you want to dabble with risqué adult-themed parties; Halloween is basically your one night for a free pass. Host a Halloween party for you and any frisky friends and go with sexy and adult themes such as 50 Shades / BDSM, Leather and Lace, Pimps and Ho's or Bad Girls and Naughty Boys. Stock the party with plenty of alcohol and fun adult games that will be sexy but still meet everyone's tastes.

Happy Halloween girls and ghouls!

 

- BSYNH

 

 

 

 

 

Staying in or Going Out: The Nuances of Married Dating

Head out on the town or head for the couch? Here's what works and why

For most married couples, keeping a healthy dating routine where there is just alone time for the couple is essential to keeping the romance going. One question that keeps popping up is how and how often should married couples date? Is a night at home in the living room watching Netflix as good for the relationship as heading out to dinner and the movie theatre? let's take a look to see what the advantages of each are:

Making you feel sexy

Advantage: Heading out

In general, going on a formal date will lead to a couple feeling more sexy. Surveys show that someone going on a date on the town will invest more time into making a good appearance as opposed to simply putting on sweatpants for a cuddle session on the sofa. Couples are more likely to make the effort to put on makeup, perfume / cologne, take care of personal grooming and wear more flattering attire (sexier underwear included), which gives a confidence boost and makes you look more attractive to your partner who will lavish you with attention and compliments.

Dating frequency

Advantage: Staying in

Whether it be for financial reasons (eating out), logistical (finding a babysitter) or just plain convenience, couples that plan more informal dates at home will have a higher frequency of alone time than those that only do formal dates out of the house. So although you won't be able to get away from it all, you will spend more time with your partner be it by candlelight dinner after the kids are asleep or watching your favorite horror movie while sharing a bowl of popcorn.

 

Probability of post-date sex

Advantage: It's a draw

The good news is regardless of the date being at home or outside, the chances that your partner may want to take it to the bedroom after is about the same. While a formal date may include more natural aphrodisiac activities like holding hands or sharing a bottle of wine, staying in cannot be beat for sheer convenience.

One-on-One communication

Advantage: Heading out

Want to have a serious conversation with less distraction? Chances are you'll be better off out of the house and away from the things that get in the way on a regular basis. Cellphones and noisy patrons may still get in the way but it's nothing compared to the on-going distractions by being in your usual home setting.


So whether it's staying in or going out, dating as a couple is something that can only bring good things to your relationship. Pick one, or both, but just be sure to do it!

-BSYNH