Enticed by our introduction to bondage article? Here are some fun, easy and exciting games to explore with your spouse.
Sexy Spy Interrogation
This is a simple way to have a bondage encounter without the awkwardness of safe words or too much pre-planning. Check this out:
- Choose who will be the "captured spy" and who will be the "interrogator".
- Without the other partner seeing:
- Captured spy sets a 10 or 15 minute timer on a cellphone, and then locks the phone with a code unknown to the other partner. If you don't have a suitable cellphone, take a small object and hide it in the room somewhere.
- Interrogator sets up an interrogation area in the room. A bed or chair will work but an over-the-door restraint would be best as the game is more fun when you are both standing. Pick up some items like ice cubes, sex toys, nipple clamps (or clothes pins), etc to use on your partner.
- Begin the game by having the captured spy put into bondage for interrogation. The interrogator now has to get the unlock code from the spy before the cellphone alarm rings. If you've hidden something in the room instead, the interrogator must have the spy give up the location of this item before a pre-determined time.
- As interrogator, use the various accessories to tease and entice the spy to give up the information. Try a mix of seductive tortures (licking, sucking, bringing them to climax but denying them release) along with rougher play (spanking, pinching). Before you perform an "interrogation technique", explain what you are about to do and give the spy a chance to give up the information. Try to convince the spy to divulge the information so you can release them and finish them off after all this teasing.
- As the spy, try as hard as possible to maintain the full time without divulging the information. If ever you can't continue or your partner is doing (or about to do) something you do not like, simply give up the information and the game is over. On the contrary, as a sign to your partner to go even further or try harder, you can give cues like giving a false code / location to "get them angry" or say things like "you'll have to try harder than that, I'll never talk!"
- To make it more interesting, you can both agree on a reward for the winner or punishment for the loser of this game.
Self-Bondage Scavenger Hunt
Think your partner is secretly wishing for a bondage-style evening of steamy love-making? Surprise them with a sizzling bondage mini-adventure that will leave them writhing in anticipation all along. Here's what to do:
- Find a time when your partner will be home alone, without knowing that you will be home as well. Find a good hiding spot!
- Leave a note for your partner telling them to go to a specific location in your house. At that location, have another note ready with an instruction (such as "remove your shirt / blouse") and provide the location of the next note.
- At each location, have your partner do something such as:
- Remove an article of clothing or replace it with something sexy (lingerie, tight boyshorts)
- Something that will "put them in the mood" (smell a bouquet of roses, take a shot of alcohol, use a sex toy on themselves, etc)
- As they get towards the end, you can have them start collecting gear more specific to bondage (ball gag, nipple clamps, paddle, sex toys). Now they will know where this is going!
- At the final location, there should be one last set of instructions on a note. They should put any sex toys or accessories collected in a certain place and signal to you their completion of the course (for example by texting you a specific phrase). Once this is done, have a scenario ready for them where they are instructed to wear or apply various items they collected (blindfold, etc) and finally lock themselves up in a certain position where they will wait for you (think something easy like handcuffs tied to the bed frame or a chair).
- Allow a few minutes for your partner to wait and anticipate your arrival. Their mind will be racing wondering what you are about to do to them!
Catch and Release
Spice up any card game or drinking game with your spouse by introducing some sexy elements of bondage / submission. It's a great way to take turns trying things out and makes for fun and exciting foreplay.
- Before you begin, with your partner make a deck of notecards or notes with a mix of at least 10 dirty acts, punishments or dares. (See below for some examples.)
- You will need a pair of handcuffs and any other sex toys or accessories that will go with the notecard activities you wrote above.
- Play a round of a quick card or drinking game:
- Loser of the round is locked up in handcuffs and will have to negotiate their release by agreeing to terms on the card randomly dawn by the winner.
- Winner pulls a notecard that names the price for the loser's freedom for this round. Loser must fulfill what is on the card to be set free.
- The acts described on the cards should be able to be done by (or to) the loser while in handcuffs. They should also work for both you and your spouse's gender and tastes, and are meant to be used a naughty foreplay. Fun items include:
- Having your partner spank you
- Having them write something on your body with a permanent marker
- Covering a part of you with syrup or whipped cream and licking it off
- Making you perform a quick sexual act (give a fast bit of oral sex, letting them play with you while you're captive)
- Take a compromising or suggestive photo of you for their personal use
- Use a sex toy on you (substitute with a male person's mouth for vaginal toys)
- Be creative! This is a great game to push the limits and try new things with your spouse
- Once the loser has fulfilled what was on the notecard, that person is free and you play another round of the card/drinking game.
- Game ends when all 10 notecards have been played or someone has collected a certain number of notecards. Then head up to the bedroom to finish things off.
- This game is more fun when played in your underwear or some sort of role-playing costume... or less.
Happy playtime everyone ;0)
-BSYNH
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