Don't feel like going down? Here are three super sexy alternatives that will make your partner happy you said "no" to that blowjob.
Getting asked (or strongly hinted) to perform oral sex by your partner can give mixed emotions if you're not in the mood to give your tongue a workout or ready to put a banana down your throat. This often becomes a sore point for couples and can lead to unwanted resentment or feelings of rejection. To avoid the awkwardness of declining your partner's request here are three hot things you can do instead to give them the satisfaction they want.
Use a toy instead.
The good news for you is it's 2017 and that means sex toys have come a long way. How good are they? Most are better in terms of range of motion, able to do more things than your tongue and suction could ever do and usually for much longer. Keep a toy handy and after starting off on your own, call it in for backup to finish the job and bring your lips elsewhere on their body.
Dominate them into masturbating themselves.
Pull a power move and flip the script. Instead of giving oral, channel your inner dominant and get them to spread out on a bed or kneel on the floor to masturbate for your viewing pleasure. You will give the orders to start or stop, speed up or slow down and apply a punishment using a belt or a crop if they're not doing it to your liking or if it seems like they're enjoying it too much. Use a scarf or necktie as a blindfold so all they can do is focus on your voice and commands. Enjoy the game as well and play with yourself if so desired. My bonus advice for any women out there wanting to reach master dominatrix level and really blow his mind? Take off your panties and stuff it in his mouth as a gag.
Give a pre-emptive naughty handjob surprise.
Not in the mood to hanky-panky after the date and you're pretty sure it's what your partner is expecting? Surprise them before the date is over in the back row of the theatre or in the car while in a secluded corner of the parking lot with a love session from your fingers or hand. Lift their skirt and split the panties to the side, or, unbuckle and reach in, and let them enjoy the naughtiness of doing something where you could get caught. The excitement of it all will overshadow any oral you could have possibly given back in the boring ol' bedroom.
Chins up my dear readers :0)
-BSYNH
