Top Five Underrated But Totally Awesome Sex Toys to Use for Couples

Looking to stuff those Christmas stockings for you and your spouse? Here's something nice for those who want to be naughty.


The sex toy industry was valued at about 15 billion US dollars (yes BILLION) last year. For those of you wondering, no that is not because of gag gifts, bachelorette parties, Vegas strippers or lonely guys living in a basement apartment. It is because married couples are the largest consumers of sex toys. On average, the master bedroom of married couples in America contains about $300 worth of adult-only fun toys.

As the Christmas shopping season approaches, here are five of the most underrated sex toys we recommend for use by married couples looking to add a little bit of fun to their nights.

The Womanizer

Ladies, if you have not experienced this yet, it's time to find out what you're missing. First and foremost, this is NOT a vibrator, it is an awesome stimulation device (designed by a husband and wife duo) that will excite your clitoris like never before using air suction and pressure waves. Here's why you need to try it:

1. You'll climax faster than you ever have before. Initial research says 80% of women will have a toe-curling orgasm within the first 5 minutes.
2. It feels just like oral sex. Dare I say it felt better? Sorry hubby...
3. You have full control. You can easily adjust the intensity level and depth of suction to play with yourself longer, harder or whatever suits your mood.
4. You will have multiple orgasms. Feel relaxed knowing that you will be spent by the end of the night, as did 75% of most women surveyed.
5. It works on nipples too. Because it's suction-based stimulation, it is perfect for teasing your nipples when your poor clit needs a break from the action.
6. It works on men too. If you're into sharing your toys, you can use it on your husband's frenulum (the super sensitive underside of his penis) so he can see what all the fuss is about.

Male Chastity Device

Ever felt the relief of an orgasm after having pent-up sexual energy inside? It's more common in women than men, but here's a way to drive your man wild to that same point and even further - so much so he may as well be begging you to let him climax at the end.

If you haven't guessed from the picture, a chastity device (also termed "cock cage") restrains a man's penis form having an erection without causing him any pain. This means he will feel all the mental stimulation of arousal without being able to bring on a erection to build up towards a climax and get the physical relief.

Choose a good quality device made of medical grade plastic for the best hygiene properties. There are different models and each comes in multiple sizes; choose the right fight for your man based on his flaccid penis length, lock him up and give him a lap dance. After about 5 minutes he'll be begging you to be set loose.


Ball Gag

Most couples have dabbled with handcuffs and blindfolds, yet many have not yet tried the last part of the light BDSM trifecta: a good quality ball gag. If it turns you on to be retrained in the dark while your partner goes to town on your body; the icing on the cake is to let loose and have your loudest, wildest, screaming O into a muffling ball gag. No need to worry about waking the neighbours.


Ben Wa Balls

Leave it to Japanese technology to revolutionize the world in the bedroom too. Ben Wa balls are one of the world's oldest sex toys, providing women and couples pleasure for centuries. They come in multiple sizes, different materials and weights, and can be stringed for easier removal. Depedning on the sensation you are looking for, they can be inserted cold or warm. You can try them solo by placing them in your vagina and moving around or squeezing tightly (similar to Kegel exercises); as the balls move around inside you, you will feel strong stimulation of your vaginal walls in ways not normally achievable during intercourse.

If you want to play ball with your partner (pun intended), leave them in during intercourse and you will both be able to feel the balls as they are moved around by your male partner's thrusting motions, stimulating both of you.


Nipple Clamps on a Chain

Once reserved for serious BDM play, nipple clamps are becoming a fixture in mainstream sex as a must-have following right behind handcuffs and blindfolds. Nipple clamps are an affordable and versatile couples toy to keep in the nightstand, easy and effective to use and can be used on both men and women alike. Whether used in foreplay, in the heat of passion, or as you are climaxing, a gentle tug on the nipple clamps will be more than enough to set you or your partner's sensations ablaze by stimulating one of the body's most erogenous zones. The chain is key as it allows your partner to use only one hand to stimulate both nipples while the other hand is free to do other things. A clamp of good quality will be made or stainless or medical grade steel and allow for pressure adjustment - go this route so that you and your partner can set the clamping force for a level you are comfortable with.

-BSYNH

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