One challenge couples face in their sex is keeping things fresh and interesting; in particular to a lifelong partner. Routine sets in quite easily in a sex life when you have a long and committed relationship, but there are some simple tricks that can help you wow your partner and keep your sex life firing on all cylinders. Have a look:
Learn a new move.
The internet is full of information and there is nothing wrong with getting some training in private and surprising your partner with a new skill when they least expect it. For women, guys are most turned on with porn-star like skills. Some of the most popular: telling your partner to ejaculate on your belly, chest or back, or, having fun with props (try giving oral to a dildo or vibrator while he's thrusting inside you). For men, women are mostly turned on by increased aptitude down below. An oral sex upgrade tops women's' list (sucking instead of licking is an easy promotion most guys don't know about) with G-spot play a close second.
Throw them a sexy dare.
In some cases it isn't just about sex, but about pushing your partner to new sexy limits and doing something fun and daring together. An example would be to stop outside a sex shop on the way home from dinner or a date, and dare them to go in and out in 5 minutes and spend at least $20 on something. Sweeten the deal by promising something good if they do it. Acts like these add spontaneity, fun and generate excitement all while setting the tone for the rest of the evening.
Grab them when and where they're least expecting it.
Have you had sex in the same room and same bed for as long as you can't remember? Most probably you had. Break the routine by jumping your partner in the kitchen and make use of a counter or table. Instant aphrodisiac
Restyle your personal grooming.
Another easy way to surprise your partner is to go sexier with your grooming style and habits. Updating your look in your bathing suit area is a great way to make your partner notice something new and is a good first step in encouraging renewal in oral sex or down low foreplay.
Flirt in a way your never had before.
As we mentioned in a previous post, it's important to never stop flirting with your significant other. So why not get savvy with some of the more modern ways of flirting to spice things up for an encounter with your spouse? A flirty social media message, racy text or a suggestive snapchat will go a long way to ensure your significant other will have you on their mind when they least expect it.
-BSYNH
